Whether your kid was born ready for the stage or still figuring out how to shine, finding the right activities can make a huge difference in helping them build confidence and self-expression.

Here are some fun, low-pressure ways to help kids feel seen, heard, and proud of who they are — both in the spotlight and behind the scenes.

1. Put on a Backyard Talent Show

All you need is a little space, a few snacks, and an open mic (a hairbrush will do). Invite friends or family, or keep it small with just a few supportive faces. It’s not about perfection — it’s about expression. Singing, dancing, jokes, even pet tricks — anything goes.

Confidence tip: Let your child help plan the “show.” Giving them ownership helps them feel safe trying new things.

2. Explore Local Theatre or Acting Classes

Community theatre is a great place to learn teamwork, public speaking, and character-building (literally and figuratively). Not every kid wants to be the lead — and that’s okay. Backstage roles, props, and voiceover opportunities are just as empowering.

Psst: If they love the idea of modeling, acting, or just getting more comfortable in their own skin, a program like Barbizon is designed to help young people grow in confidence while exploring the entertainment world at their own pace.

3. Make Mini Movies at Home

Grab your phone and let your kid be the director, actor, costume designer — or all three! They can re-enact favorite scenes, create original characters, or film skits with friends. Editing apps like CapCut or iMovie make it easy (and fun) to bring stories to life.

4. Sign Up for Public Speaking Clubs or Debate

Okay, we know this sounds intimidating, but it can actually be super empowering for shy kids. Programs like Toastmasters Youth or school speech teams help teach kids how to organize their thoughts, speak with purpose, and gain confidence through practice.

5. Try Modeling for Fun

From learning how to walk with confidence to discovering their personal style, modeling can be a great way for kids and teens to boost self-esteem — especially when it’s done in a supportive, age-appropriate environment.

Pro tip: Even if they’re not sure if they want to “model” for real, exploring things like photoshoots, posing tips, or even social media content creation can help kids see themselves in a new light.

At Barbizon, we’ve seen kids who barely spoke up in class blossom into bold, self-assured young people ready to take on auditions, interviews, or simply walk into a room with confidence. And honestly? That’s the goal — helping them become their best selves, on and off camera.

Want help encouraging your child’s confidence? Keep it fun, flexible, and full of encouragement. Who knows? The spotlight might be calling — even if they don’t hear it just yet.